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Pamela Bender

Pamela Bender

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Obituary

Pamela Bender, 75, of Beachwood, died on July 22, 2020 at home with her loving family at her bedside. Born in Williamsport, PA., she has been a resident of Beachwood since 1989. Mrs. Bender was a Real Estate Broker and had worked for several reality companies including, Toms River Real Estate, Ann Schuld Realty of Bayville and most recently with Glen Kelly Reality of Beachwood. Pam was an avid bowler and was a member of several Leagues including Toms River and Lakewood. She also enjoyed her trips to Florida but her true passion was spending time with her loving family. She had been predeceased by her parents Kenneth and Donna Winger and by her stepdad Raymond Blanchard.

Surviving are her husband of 50 years Joseph; four children, Christina Greene and her husband Randy, Kenneth Withers, Linda Suter and her husband Craig and Joann Jonin and her husband Tony. Also survived by three siblings, Randal Winger and his wife Darlene, Linda Smith and her husband Ronald and Mark Blanchard and his wife Jackie and seven devoted grandchildren.

There will be visiting hours on Sunday, July 26th, from 2pm to 4pm, at the Mastapeter Memorial Home, 270 Atlantic City Blvd., Bayville. Monday, a graveside committal service will be offered at 11am in St. Joseph Cemetery, 56 Grove St., Toms River.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Sunday, July 26th, 2020 | 2:00pm - 4:00pm
    When
    Sunday, July 26th, 2020 2:00pm - 4:00pm
    Location
    Mastapeter Memorial Home (Bayville)
    Address
    270 Atlantic City Blvd.
    BAYVILLE, NJ 08721
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  • Service

    Monday, July 27th, 2020 | 11:00am
    When
    Monday, July 27th, 2020 11:00am
    Location
    Saint Joseph Cemetery
    Address
    56 Cedar Grove Road #80
    TOMS RIVER, NJ 08753
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  • Interment

    Location
    St. Joseph Cemetery
    Address
    56 Cedar Grove Road
    TOMS RIVER, NJ
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Lois McNutt

Posted at 12:41pm
Pam's family,
Sincere condolences.
Lois McNutt, class of 1962 SWAHS

David Hiatt

Posted at 07:56am
Pam
You now fly high with the Angel's that look over all of us. I will miss that warm feeling that you always had present and that warm smile that you always wore. Rest well you will be dearly missed but always shall you live in our hearts
With all my love and heart felt sympathy
Dave
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Lots of Love Zoey, Jazmine, & Jade

Posted at 09:47pm
We love you Grandma and we'll all miss you so much. Whenever we see the ocean we'll think of you. Rest in peace.
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Dennis, Mary Ann, and family

Posted at 08:55am
Thinking of you with love at this so difficult time.
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The Suter Family

Posted at 05:44pm
With our deepest sympathy and love. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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